Updated: Feb 22
Why Don't People Come Forward About Assault?
People ask all the time, why aren’t these issues reported? Why don’t people speak out? Look at what happens to the people who do speak out...
Here’s a list of all the people who are my rapist/support my rapist/performed for my rapist/support my rapist apologists/are rapist apologists/have dismissed my rape that I know of since it happened:
Maria Theresa Parra
Lola Jean Darling aka Lo aka Lolo Beware aka Lo Cee
Victoria Grace Carney Rodriguez
Lyndz Paul Carney
Sherrie June Smith
Nicole Spruill Hudson
Celeste & Chester
Ashley Moon Walker
Victoria that fucks Bryan Evans idk her last name
All members of Krewe of Overnight Marignade
All staff and supporters of Monkey Monkey
All members of Krewe of Krewe
All members of Krewe of Oak
All members of Iko All Stars
All staff of Maple Leaf Bar especially whoever was working Halloween night 2018
Anyone who supports Maple Leaf Bar or Trash Pile Nola
So many people I can’t even list them all, these are just some of the ones that pissed me off the most. In my case it is the New Orleans music scene.
So why don’t people come forward? Cause when you do, you no longer have a community.
People don’t speak out due to their own version of these people in their life.
If it weren’t for these people, my rapist wouldn’t have gotten away that night. My rapist wouldn’t still be free. I could have been helped or protected if these people used their social influence to defend me or speak out against Floyd, especially the ones who were there that night and the ones who continue to support him.
These are the same people who have a history for covering up assault in the community. The reason it all continues.
So why does rape culture exist? Look around. It’s the people right next to you. Unless you are anti rape culture, then it is you.
For more specifics to the story, reference: https://www.noladeafchild.com/post/trash-rape-culture-in-new-orleans-music
I had conflicting thoughts on whether to post these screenshots. On one hand receiving them made me felt validated. On the other I felt gaslit further. I am fucking sick and tired of the abuse!!!!!!!! I am having fucking break downs over this shit. I am over it.
Even though I don't think this excuses my sister dismissing my rape and supporting my rapist, these people also fucking covered up her husband or ex husband I don't know what the fuck they are Diego Rodriguez breaking her wrist plus don't get me started on how they treat their kid sooo.....
FUCK THESE PEOPLE FOR CONTINUING TO MAKE ME FEEL GASLIT AND DISMISSED IN REGARDS TO RAPE CULTURE AND ASSAULT IN THE COMMUNITY. YOU ARE THE FUCKING PROBLEM. ME TALKING ABOUT THIS DOESN'T MEAN "I AM NOT HEALED". THAT'S DISMISSIVE AS SHIT. YOU DIP FUCKS NEED TO TAKE ACCOUNTABILITY FOR YOUR FUCKING BEHAVIOR. IF YOU THINK CALLING YOU OUT "MAKES ME A NAZI" BUT BEATING THE SHIT OUT OF PEOPLE AND VIOLATING SEXUAL CONSENT DOESN'T MAKE YOU ONE, THEN YOU ARE A FUCKING HYPOCRITE AND CAN SUCK MY HAIRY WOLF DICK.
The only good thing about me losing most of my network is that the timing aligned with the pandemic, and these are the people who have spread/are spreading the virus.
Culture exists in the power of the community. Everyone likes to think that it's individuals who act badly so only they are responsible. But how the individuals act as a whole matters too. If you want to go fast, go alone. If you want to go far, go together. You choose how far you are going together. How far are you willing to let things go for social status?